What is Marriage?

Marriage is not the fairy-tale event of a single glamorous day, nor is it a cold legal contract that can be torn apart when expectations aren’t met. It is the oldest God-ordained institution, a sacred covenant that demands commitment, selflessness, and divine alignment. In this powerful opening to a seven-part series, Stephanie Ike Okafu peels back the layers of misconceptions—reminding us that marriage is not about “seeing what happens,” but about stepping into a God-designed partnership where the vow you make is heard and honored by Heaven itself. Every declaration, every “I do,” carries the weight of eternity, shaping destinies and unlocking blessings—or, when dishonored, closing doors you never expected.

But here’s the heart-gripping truth—when we treat marriage casually, the consequences reach beyond our homes; even our prayers can be hindered. The Bible calls marriage a holy institution that God loves, one that functions as a covering of protection, order, and grace. In this lesson, you’ll discover why your spouse is never the enemy, how selfishness becomes the silent destroyer, and why the covenant mindset is the only key to thriving in marriage. Whether you’re single, engaged, or already on the journey, this teaching will challenge everything you thought you knew—and leave you longing to hear the next word. This isn’t just about marriage. It’s about Heaven’s blueprint for love, legacy, and life itself.